I just turned 50 this month. When I was a young teen i played doctor w a female first cousin and my step brother. I’ve always liked girl on girl scenes. However, now I like seeing man, man on each other and a woman clips. Does that mean I’m becoming bi?

We broke up because he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship. But he phones and calls me sexy in his txts and I can’t let go.

Since my early twenties, I’ve had frequent homosexual fantasies. I have been in a wonderful relationship since I was 18 with a woman whom I adore. Every now and then, my gay ‘yearnings’ are very strong and if I wasn’t married, would probably look to indulge in some experimentation. Should I tell her about these fantasies?

My parents would freak, my classmates would take the piss so badly my life would not be worth living anymore so how can i say I’m gay?

My 17 year old son has recently told me that he thinks he’s gay. I’ve actually had suspicions for a little while but now that he’s actually come out and said it, it’s knocked me for six.

I am 20 years old and really struggling with my sexuality. I had never had any kind of encounters with guys before until a couple of weeks ago, when a really nice boy was clearly flirting with me and I flirted right back.

I feel like I am in a dead end relationship…my ideal life would involve marriage or its civil equivalent, a house and maybe some kids. She has no interest in any of these things. Is there any way that I can make a clean break without breaking my heart?

I think he wants to get to know me but is afraid of what may happen if you get what i mean? What should i do?

I am unsure about my sexuality. I find women attractive whereas I don’t find men attractive.

I’ve fancied a friend for a few months now and I’m wondering if I should try something with him. I am afraid it might ruin our friendship though.