I’m flat chested!

Dear Suzie,
i am 14 and have got 32a sized breasts. i feel really left out because all my mates are in their c and d cups. it gets me depressed.no boy likes me because i am flat chested.PLEASE HELP ME. is there any way i can help get them bigger?? please help,
i cant talk to my mum about this stuff.HELP!!

At 14 you still have a lot of growing to do. Your body may well change in the next few years. But some people stay slim and they’re the ones that women with fuller breast envy like mad because they can fit into designer clothes!

Seriously – the shape you are and the shape you’ll become is just the way it is. There is nothing you can do about it, apart from eating a healthy diet and doing exercise to give yourself and good, toned outline.

As for boys not liking you because of your bust size – good grief, would you want to be liked by someone just because you had a cleavage? Yeuch! I certainly wouldn’t – I mean, how shallow and disgusting is that? Of course, boys of 14 – or those with an immature outlook – can be expected to be that silly but the nice ones soon grow up.

If I were you I would talk to my Mum about it. She probably went through the very same anxieties when she was a teenager and can reassure you. If you really can’t talk with her then find someone else you do feel comfortable with – a relative, a teacher, a friends mother. We’ve all been there, and we can all reassure you that if you concentrate more on who you are than what you look like such worries do fade away.

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